Brit, I haven't read all of your sitch but I did read the post you made on CV's thread and I think the part about your H changing (basically moving on) has really made me think. I think so many of us LBS's are wishing we COULD move on. Do you feel that the reason he did move on was because he found someone else? Or did that come later?
I'm sorry for what you're going through. I thank you for posting here, though, it is quite insightful.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.