I'm sorry Sandi, I never answered your first set of questions. She and I both had the same set of family values. We both liked to be "homebodies". We truly enjoyed each other's company. She loved that I was a family man. i was a hard worker and I would have done anything for them. She loved that I helped with everything, including the things she felt were her responsibility. (cooking, cleaning, laundry)
She liked that I was basically a man's man. Fixing things, hard worker, but I still had the side to take care of my family. That I took care of my parents. That I just wanted to be with her and D. That family was very important to me.
I remember fixing a flat tire for her on our second date and that was the day she said she fell for me.
After meds, it was almost like she fell out of love with me for the same reasons she fell in love with me.
Please believe me that all the reasons she fell in love with me, never stopped throughout our marriage. I always looked after her and D's needs first. The only thing that was different was the fact that I had opinions about things after we married, and when they weren't what she wanted, she felt her thoughts were always more important. She even, just the other night, blamed me solely for the breakdown of our marriage. Her words were that I didn't compromise, and when I did, it shouldn't have been a big deal in the first place.
