Hrm, I feel sorry for you and even worse for myself to hear you have been doing this for a year. I feel that many things my wife does follow the DR book to a tee. She is definitely a WAW, but I also feel she is having some sort of MLC at 34. Having said that, and please don't take this the wrong way, but I am jealous that you are still in same home. My W made me leave last week. Even though it must be crazy to deal with this in the same home, I would do anything to have to deal with my issues with M in the same home.
I am hoping "time" will help solve the problems. As I see, you are from Pa as well. If spouse still wants D in Pa, it can take a minimum of two years for that to happen. Even though I feel that sometimes I would do this out of spite, I will not sign a paper confessing that I want my M to be over. There will have to be a higher power that tells me I have to do that.
