the R just before me only lasted a couple months if im not mistaken. SD's father was just a "friend" that they made a mistake. It lasted during her pregnancy and close to year after. She originally bought her home with another M that lasted around same amount of time. She caught him cheating.
She has walked away from R's in the past. She even admits that she is this way. When she feels pressure, she runs away.
I really feel that if I do the LRT and say make a choice, then she will just be done. If I go dark with NC, it will be "out of sight, out of mind"
I do feel that when I kind of chase(i know,not DB principles) that, if done strategically, she shows some chinks in the armor.
this, along with many other things, makes me sooooo confused.
