Thanks Starsky!! I am really happy that I have been slow to react and really thinking through whether some things even need a response. It is very freeing for me.
I am again shifting my focus back to my life and changes that I am looking forward to.
I have been really enjoying my life, which is a nice bonus. I've been enjoying going to the gym and trying new classes. My girlfriends have been trying to talk me into a new one on Saturday and I may just do it. I've had the bonus of weight loss too which is very nice!
My boys have really stepped up and have been helping around the house. It was a huge concern that I will be able to maintain the house on my own, and STBX was using it as leverage. But it turns out that what I can't do myself, my boys are more than strong enough to do. What a relief!! They are amazing!
Just today I told S15 that I will be cutting the lawn once it dries enough from recent storms. I just need him to do the hills for me because I don't have the strength. He said "are you sure mom, I can do the whole thing"
The reality is I enjoy it and it is good exercise, but what a sweet boy to offer.
Keeping my focus where it should be, on me and the boys
