CV, you are exactly right. The thing that I cannot quit thinking about is how she changed over night. When we first met and the first six months of our R, we talked soooooo much about what we wanted out of life, family, and family/marriage. Each and everything we talked about, we were on the same page. But shortly after stopping the meds, she became a different person. By the way, she stopped so we could start to think about having children.
And now she blames the bad marriage on her depression. I felt like her depression is the cause of many of our problems.