i want to apologize for last night - i was really hard on you and awful blunt and i am mortified that i reacted that way. please accept my apologies
what i read about what you had written set off some real triggers for me, and instead of working through them i reacted to you. if it makes you feel any better, you were instrumental in helping me work through stuff that i didn't even know was there.
i think that the advice that KD and accuray and others are giving you is really beautiful. i think i was trying to say the same things - but in an accusing tone rather than non-judgementally. i have a lot to work on within myself
please forgive me
zig
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"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
