i'm keeping busy. H called me this morning to tell me something the realtor had told him and to request i set up some appointments for inspections on the rental we're selling. it was good i was at the beach. he was very surprised! i loved it! i'm sure he could hear the waves crashing in the background. i didn't tell him i was alone and he didn't ask (that would imply he cares...). but i asked him to email me the information because i couldn't write it down as I WAS AT THE BEACH!! ;-) and he was in his office at work!
Very nice! Personally, I think GAL'ing is excellent way of dealing with the limbo. Let your H do what he's going to do. Meanwhile, live it up and fill your life with positive things.