WAsn't Kelsey Roger's idea in the first place? Sorry I would tell him to keep her unless you are deeply attached. Good for letting it go to voice mail. I would drop him an email if you decide to let him use you as a reference. No point getting on the phone.
Big hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory