Stand up. Poor and tired, but more than this.

[LIO]

Thank you so much for popping in in here Timbits! For a while my H would bounce between jobs, always quitting because of some 'external' reason... his boss was a jerk, he didn't want to do 'xyz', or something.


Well... I talked to H this morning, mainly about his drawings on his blog. I don't think I handled that okay.
I usually am complimentary on his stuff - but I felt like the more recent ones didn't require a lot of work from him (missing heart), so I mentioned that.

There were a few that I told him I didn't want to see because the 'message' was directed towards the former OW, he 1) denied it and 2) said 'oh who cares about (OW) that'

#2 bothered me. OW is former OW now. They don't talk (I guess...)
and I care about it. I am bothered by how their relationship started, how it developed. And it ended because of me intervening (don't do that!). Why so flippant!? Why doesn't he see that it is hurtful?

Yeah, he isn't interested in building a relationship with me (I didn't ask that, but if he were, he would try). He is too busy trying to get his startup projects going. His empathy chip missing.

Well, we didn't talk about my plans for my future. Those are just going to be done... not talked about.