Brit, your Crazyville post about your feelings and thoughts during separation are exactly what my WAW is showing.
I like your comment "Any time you spend working on yourself is time well spent" as books have opened up a massive enlightenment in my head. I'm confident the things I've learnt are for me.
Your H's comment "We don't really have problems you're making a mountain out of a molehill" is similar to what I said to my WAW. But I've learnt from one of the Barbara and Allan Pease books that when WAW said "it's the little things that matter", it's really important to her even though, as a H, I didn't think so at the time
Early on I tried to prove to WAW that I had learnt some of these things. But it seemed fake to her. She said it's not my personaliity and that I could not change. I know from LRT (MWD blog version) and one of the 37 rules that it will be a slow and delicate balancing act or "see saw" to show the small and consistent changes to WAW
H 34 W 27 M 9mth T 8 Separated 1/'12 ILYBNILWY OM 2/'12
