GWN, having looked at bankruptcy, seriously, many times, I hear ya. It's not a fun idea coupled with facing it alone because of the former partner's decisions (which we didn't control).
Does that about sum it up? Because if it does, then you will need to figure out that you're going to face what comes, and overcome it, regardless. But I get that you aren't looking forward to it. Kind of like looking forward to a colonoscopy right?
4m - can I say you have some ways to go still? I read that and saw the incongruities. That's a pretty serious ego that wants to be the one to 'make her happy' as if she couldn't be happy with somebody else. She and she alone can make herself happy. Nobody else can nor should be in that position. That's not healthy.
You could wait. But what is it you would be waiting for? To find out that you still need to do some work?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
