Does your suggestion to seek a counselor incorporate the fact that we have done MC/FC'ing (with good counselors) most of our married life? That we've spent the equivalent of a year of my S's college tuition on it? In your mind, that isn't insanity by definition? (ie doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.) If you say it still applies, I will pursue, just to step "around myself."
And btw, what would be the topic? Or is that up to the counselor? We always went and had a current issue to discuss.
I will also check the next date on Retrovaille, I haven't done that before. I didn't realize when I was considering going before that it was for couples, thought it was an individual thing.
