Not so much toughening up as recognizing that you're grieving and it's legitimate. I've had a few of those experiences in the last 14 months.

It su*ks. There are times when this hurts a lot. We can recognize it, give ourselves a hug, and move on.

It's not that we can't do it alone, it's just easier with the support of someone we love.

(((z)))and hugs from friends help, too.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss