Why are you fixated on the movie issue? It's not him snoring during the movie that bothers you but you're interpretation of what his snoring means to your relationship. Not to be too blunt, what if he were to die tomorrow? Would the snoring really have mattered or would you give anything at that point to hear him snore one more time? My H has moved out and I miss hearing him snore in bed next to me. You seem like you're trying to control this situation because you've ascribed some bad meaning to the fact that he snores during a movie and THAT is causing you dissatisfaction, not him. You could easily be thinking, instead, "isn't it great that he doesn't feel the need to pretend to like my movie" or "poor guy he must be so tired." Why are you interpreting the events to have the least positive meaning for the relationship when they actually have no independent meaning (just the negative spin you are giving them?) why not do a 180 and see what happens? When he starts snoring next time, tuck him in or go to sleep there with him. See what happens. Don't let your own interpretations tyrannize you or the R.
