Sorry, Zig, didn't mean to ignore your post. I'll respond briefly and try to add tomorrow.
First, what are "sixes?" Reassurance for what?
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"all this" because you're not getting what we are trying to say, or ask you.
I will be the first to admit that.
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WAS's awfulize their LBS's - and it seems to me that you are awfulizing this whole movie/sleeping/snoring thing big time.
It isn't awful. I'm not acting like his snoring is the equivalent of an affair. I just don't enjoy my movie when he does. Do you understand that this is not a mild snore? For me, it's as unpleasant as going to the theater and having the person behind you talk through the whole movie. The snoring is not destroying our M. My H's insistence that I subject myself to it is.
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seriously, what's your point here? to stay with him and have a good relationship, or to leave?
I've answered this before. I want to have a good R. Is it required of me to watch my movies with snoring in the background in order to have a good M? Is it impossible to have a good M otherwise?