I could walk into the room on my tiptoes and not breathing, and H would wake up like I scared the cr@p out of him. When I wake him, I'm not being vicious. At worst, I'm responding because I'm annoyed. At best, I'm waking him up so he'll stop snoring. Men pester and it's all in good fun. I do it and I'm being mean. I used to do it because I really did want him to watch it with me, but he would just fall asleep again so I've given up. Now, all I want is to be able to watch my movie where he's not snoring.
