I asked him the question, what has changed about me since we got married. Here's how it went.
H - "I feel like you don't like/love me anymore. I realize I've failed a thousand times over. I'm working on that." "Are you heading to bed?" CV - "No, I need to take a shower." H - "I realize life is not all fun and games. I feel like we're missing the warmth. How to instill that again is the big question." (He gets up to leave his office, so I backed out of the doorway and got out of his way and headed to go downstairs and stopped.) CV - "That was your answer right, I'm not cutting you off?" H - "Yea, sure, why, what do you think?" CV - "Nothing, I said I wouldn't comment in any way, just your thoughts." H - "Yea, sure, that's fine for now. I'll put some more thought to it."
