First, just to clarify, these are rentals, but I assume that's obvious since I suggested I would go watch it in another room.
Second, when asked if I watch movies with H, I wasn't including watching movies with S. That is different across the board. We (the 3 of us) even go on vacation together. I do my best to keep things normal for S. I do not do one-on-one-vacations with H. Sorry if I didn't make that clear in this post. It has been discussed in the past.
Really, all this because I don't get the value in having someone in the room while you're sleeping, and thus my choosing to leave? I don't choose to leave S during his movie, he's awake. I do choose to leave H, he's asleep and snoring. I enjoy a movie more without snoring in the background. How my enjoyment equates to punishment is beyond me.
