You indicated to ME... that you do not watch movies with your H any more...
Although... you indicate that you watch movies with your S... and your H happens to be there...
You mention that your H... whom you apparently do not watch movies with, unless he happens to be there with you and S while you are watching movies with S...
*deep breath*
That your H falls asleep... and it bothers you...
You mention to Accuray that you do not like this of your H, whom you do not watch movies with... Accuray indicates that you should mention this to your H and set a boundary that you will not watch movies with him IF he falls asleep... and the consequences being... IF he falls asleep, you will leave...
My take on OT's comment was... it appears that you are watching movies with your H... whom you have suggested to me that you ARE NOT watching movies with your H, any more... in order to catch him at falling asleep... that you are even engaging in watching movies with him... so that you can prove you are right when he DOES fall asleep... ultimately, punishing him...
I see in OT's comment that you need to stick to the boundaries as you and Accuray indicated... your H has sleep apnoea for goodness sake... so you blame him for his apnoea... which IS fixable... yes... and now he IS choosing to "fix" it... and still he falls asleep... and still you are mad at him because he has sleep apnoea, is trying to "fix" it, and at 57... he's falling asleep watching a movie with you...
oiy vey...
I can't believe I'm going to hit the submit button on this post...
