this rocky path WILL smooth out

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it is hard for me to be so damn detached and yet still love him

yes, YC, i know what you mean.

accepting is really about letting go of what was - and really understanding that it is over and accepting that

in some ways it is becoming easier now -

on the other hand i find myself having big twinges all of a sudden - where it sweeps over me, but then i immediately tell myself "i look forward to it working out, and i let go of the outcome."

i'm not looking to the future to define my "now" any longer. finally that power of now stuff is beginning to make sense

((( )))

hope your'e doing well - i've been following your sitch, even though i haven't posted. stay calm, pray for clarity in every moment and focus entirely on feeling good YOURSELF, no matter what

here's something my yoga teacher says at the end of the meditation session, and i use it several times a day:

As I go forth in this day, may I have clarity of thought (touch the third eye), clarity of speech (touch your lips) and clarity of intent (touch the space between the breasts).