CV I think u are clueless my lovely WAS. See the LBS was /is just as unhappy in the M. The difference is that the WAS pulled the plug 1st. And the LBS was left wondering what happened with the end of the movie. Today's LBS is tomorrows WAS. Be careful what you wish for.
I was speaking generally. Maybe because there are so many LBS's here and not that many WAS's. I'm not wishing for it, but if I was that unhappy and H pulled the plug first, I think I would feel kind of relieved. I've experienced that in relationships before. It takes the stress out of being the bad guy, or eliminates "the bearer of bad news" when it's good news for both. It also lets you walk away as friends because both of you want out and no one feels rejected.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
CV, you seem to be under the assumption that your H is somehow blissful and unaware and really wants to be in the M...
What I think you are confused about is your belief that your H wants to stay in the M... I am not sure that he DOES... and if you ask him, he might just drop the bomb on you and tell you that he loves you but he's not IN love with you... and that he was waiting for the right time to leave...
You're right, he could be lying, but he says he wants to. His actions are actually what makes me question it, because he knows how I feel and doesn't really change anything. If you're suggesting that maybe he doesn't, then why hold on?
