So you have completely stopped watching movies with your H? If so, for how long has this been?
I've watched movies with S while H sleeps on the couch. Otherwise, I watch movies I like, usually without H. We haven't shared a movie in a long time, can't remember when.
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So that was a general complaint that we all have about life, then? Nothing unique to your sitch?
General comment, nothing unique. Sorry if it sounded like I was implying otherwise.
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OK, so this was in the past... not sure why you brought this up, then... I was actually asking about things in the future... ie. From this day forward. Sorry if that wasn't clear.
It was brought up in the context that H is still complaining that I didn't go. I don't plan to go to similar events in the future.
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That's nice of you to think so highly of yourself. Have you actually had any overt requests for intimacy by another man? Or is this just something that you THINK could be possible?
I can't read if you're being sarcastic, but yes, I have been directly propositioned, several times.
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So, you "allow" him to eat the food you cook?
It's just there. I'm not the keeper of the food. If he wants a grilled cheese and apple sauce for dinner, he's more than welcome to it.
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Oh, your status still indicates that you are in separate bedrooms. I remember now that you moved back into the bedroom.
Yes, I should change that. My S is also 12 now.
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That doesn't really answer the question. And it encompasses the cooking question, to some degree.
Is there a food item that your H will buy, that you will use for yourself or vice versa?
Yes, for example, milk and eggs are used by everyone. I buy mushrooms, he does not eat mushrooms, nor does he buy them for me.
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When can you ask him about things that he's noticed you've changed?
Maybe tonight, though he seems pretty offish. (((He doesn't like questions like that so it might not go well. He also might just tell me he'll think about it and get back to me.))) I started to type this then stopped typing it, then decided to type it anyway, just so I could say that I recognize my negative attitude. So instead, I'm just going to say I'll ask him and I'll let you know how he responds.
