You seem to be in as good a place as you can. I totally agree to get a lawyer on board. I have always used the line with my H "I really didnt want to 'get a temporary order set' but that is what my L recommends and right now I need to trust him"
I try to avoid getting into debates with my H about things I need to do to protect my family. I stay sweet as pie.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13