You seem to be in as good a place as you can. I totally agree to get a lawyer on board. I have always used the line with my H "I really didnt want to 'get a temporary order set' but that is what my L recommends and right now I need to trust him"

I try to avoid getting into debates with my H about things I need to do to protect my family. I stay sweet as pie.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13