I don't believe you when you say you are fine with H falling asleep and going to another room to finish a movie. I believe you resent it along with his history of sleep apnea deeply. Thus, knowing it hurts H when you finish the movie elsewhere, it looks a lot like punishing H because of your resentment.
This is one we'll just have to disagree on. I'm very content not even starting the movie together. We don't like the same kind of movies anymore anyway. Maybe it just isn't my love language, but the idea of getting value from being in the same room with someone that is sleeping is simply lost on me. In general, I'm more of a loner, and I'm quite content most of the time doing things alone. My hobbies are gardening, sewing, and reading, all things very easily done alone, as opposed to tennis or poker which generally requires more than one person. (re. my post of preferring to watch a ballgame on tv vs. going to the stadium with 40k other people.) You don't have to believe me, but you're not going to convince me either.
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Glad H is using his CPAP. Has H had his sleeping disorder evaluated recently? It sounds like his treatment is insufficient if he is still showing significant signs of sleep deprivation.
No, he hasn't. If that's something you care to take up with him, feel free. I have suggested, repeatedly. Now I'm into nagging. Honestly, I think it's just more of a family trait so it might be pointless anyway.
