You are right. I am hurting, because he's put me here, so it's hard to see or feel anything else right now. But I do love him and want to be there for him and help him. I also know that I can't fix him. He has to do that for himself.
I will try to detach more and hopefully that helps and doesn't make him think that I'm pulling away. Maybe that's what OW is doing for him. Who knows...nothing makes sense right now.
Thanks for your input I really appreciate it!!
M:38, H:37, SS:17, D:12 ILYBINILWY: Aug. 2011 OW Discovered: Mid Aug. 2011 Piecing from Aug. - Oct.2011 I Moved out: Nov.2011 Moved back in piecing since: Nov. 5, 2011 H talking to OW again: May 15
