I think that 2-3 year mark is kind of the make up your mind period. The relationship is going forward or I'm bailing sort of thing. Don't beat yourself up over that, it's like trying on a different role and seeing how it fits you.

Marriage of course should be different but sometimes the people we marry get abducted and turn into these wacko aliens. They cheat and lie and are just terrible. honestly I think they never really grew up and are acting like spoiled little brats like it should be ok to sleep with someone else!

Anyhow, don't give up. If I, at 47, still believe that I have something wonderful to offer than so should you. I do believe that someimes we try so hard to find someone that we don't see the people right in front of us. Don't sweat it, love will find you again when you are ready.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory