Hey Autumn,
Been reading along and I am so sorry about how things are progressing.

Just curious, what are you doing to keep you safe calm and and sane?

Your husband is going to push harder and may crash in a blaze of... something. This will surely bring up alot of anger and negative feelings.

I see your gameplan for dealing with the contact (which is great) but what's the gameplan for dealing with the feelings?

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.