Well Jack, I wasn't really blaming STBX for making me into something I don't like. Just noting it sure is happening. I think me seeing that was important
I have been accused of ignoring the fluff and going for the 'kill', as a friend put it. Finding the one weak link in his post, the thing he didn't really want to talk about.
I only have your words, the ones you put here to express yourself. Sometimes, those words are like Freudian slips. : )
Those I tend to notice.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK