It's ok to vent man. I wasn't aware of your situation fully...money wise.
And it isn't fair, like you I had two jobs and the lion's share of the bills.
As for the vizualization excercise? That in no way represents what will happen. It was supposed to be for you not being co-dependant with her.
I tried the vizualization...but I relaized that I had no such cord attached to my wife. : ) We are together by choice. Plus and more importantly, belly buttons freak me out.
It is impossible to go dark when kids are involved. Dim? Talks about just bills and your daughter's well being? Not impossible.
Vent here, I have thicker skin than you can imagine, there is nothing you can say that will upset me, long term. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
