I just wanted you to know I have lived up to my short comings and have "seen the light". I know and understand the issues she has had with me and have changed, for this has totally changed my life. I am a different person from this. It's almost I am grateful for this happening, because I know the things I needed to change. But to blame me for everything really hurts. Especially since alot of the things she blamed me for were issues I was trying to help our marriage.