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[Accuray]

Don't do it! Leave him alone. All that conversation is going to do is make you feel worse.

-- You cannot convince him that what he's doing is wrong
-- You cannot shame him into changing his behavior
-- You cannot manipulate him into coming back
-- You cannot present an argument that will resonate with him

What can you do? GIVE SPACE.

JKS, do not make that call.

Here's what to do instead: type out or write out what you want to say to him. Journal it, set it aside.

If you keep journaling the same thoughts for a week, think very hard about what you want to say and what you expect to happen in response.

If you can't do it, at the very least wait until tomorrow to make that call, and do something fun for yourself tonight.

Accuray