Wife says it's to far gone

[shockeddad]

I closed some bank accounts and took some money out so she don't take it. Took her name of the credit card and ordered new card. Told her she needed to give me money for the renewal of a membership and money for my half of the food stamps that she spent. Didn't ell her about the credit card or bank accounts, she didn't sound happy when I asked for the money. She needs a dose of what it's going to be like if she goes and files for a D. She also called me because our son split his head open and she wasn't sure if she should take him in or not. I told her to take him to the fire department I use to work at and see what they think. They didn't think he needed any. Am I come across as mean. Doing this is hard to believe this might change her mind.