Your hard work had paid off....you were able to tackle some tough issues PLUS you can enjoy a night out together!! Sounds wonderful!!
(((((LEE)))))
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
I hope you had a nice easter too, raindeer, thanks for checking up on me.
Well time for an update.
Things are going well, for the most part. I don't know.....sometimes it seems like things are getting a litllt too comfortable and i keep waiting for the other shoe to drop!!! However, i find that if i just breathe and stop the panic, that nothing happens!!!
Today is H's 29th birthday. I think he had a good day, and since it's a public holiday, it meant he had the day off work. I got him an x box and a frame photo of us for his gift, and he really loved it all. Funny, it's his b day, and yet today, he had my car cleaned and cooked the dinner and helped with the house work. Granted i'm a little ill at the moment, but H has been great.
We had a really great time over the weekend.
He starts his C for depression tomorrow, and i think that this will be a trying time for us both, but also well worth it. After he's been doing that for a few weeks, then we'll start MC.
I still get frustrated and angry and scared, but i'm mostly OK!
Thanks for listening and i hopw you are all doing well.
I am very happy that your sitch is going well. Keep your positive attitude. Your H will also behave positively.
My sitch is still no change. My W still does not want to communicate. I am not sure what does she want. If she wants out why does not she tell and we get through with it. If she wants to stay, why does not she want to improve our situation?
Quote: He starts his C for depression tomorrow, and i think that this will be a trying time for us both, but also well worth it. After he's been doing that for a few weeks, then we'll start MC.
This is great news! Keep us posted!!!!
Quote: I still get frustrated and angry and scared, but i'm mostly OK!
This is natural....you have been through alot. I am happy things are looking up for you!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
Just though i'd let you know that i'm moving to a new 'home'.......I think i can make it offical, i'm most certainly in piecing and i think i need to start a new, clean thread. I think it will help me as i've decided that it is time to put the past in the past, not forget, but at least begin and move beyond it.
Please come and visit me!!!
Thank you all for your help through this trying time.
