Not sure where to start, Part 3

[wishing, hoping]

So H did not come home last night. He is running again. Nice.

Got an email from the banker this morning. The house will not appraise at what it needs to for H to refinance and get my name off the title. I know he will push to short sale this house which will ruin my credit and I won't be able to get another place. I don't know what to do. His decision is really screwing me and the kids. Is there any path out of this nightmare???