i think it's hard to get a narcissist to seek counseling for a diagnosis. in their minds, there's nothing wrong with them.

you could try giving him this test:
narcissistic quiz

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing