she says we are done, we are never getting back together
They pretty much all say some version of that but that doesn't mean you shouldn't believe her. She wants out, she wants space, she wants away from you right now.
Do that for her, detach and let her have some space. As she said so clearly below, pursing is not bringing you closer but rather propelling her away from you.
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has even asked me herself "can you not see what you are doing by chasing and crowding me?"
I'd print that sentence out and hang it where you can see it everyday, make it the screensaver on your computer, put it on your phone.
Good luck.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
