NLW, I used to write very similar emails.

Busto is right. It does sound condescending and holier than thou. Now that you've got that out of your system...

Don't send it. The less said the better,

I don't remember, did you get a L?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss