few more thoughts. your letter and thinking is still full of 'we's'. The only we you should be thinking or writing about is you and the kids. in relation to ur was it should be 'I'

you also might preface ur response by welcoming the overture. oh im glad you brought this up H because getting my financial in order also has been weighing on my mind.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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