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[bustorama]

I would respond saying that doesn't work for me and ask for the name of his lawyer so your lawyer can contact him/her.

alternatively, I would say that doesn't work for me. I have found mediator x that is reputable and I would like to see to save me and the kids some money. if that does not work for you, please give me the name of your attorney and ill have my attorney contact him/her.

your letter is pursuing, it is implicitly invalidating of your H's wishes even as it claims to be accepting and it also is patronizing or talking down to in the sense that you are trying to educate him about the legal process and all that he doesn't know or is not considering. emasculating to a man and not ur responsibility -- leave that to the lawyers mediators or judge to edumacate him.