Well things are still moving forward. H completed the marriage builders Q's and we spent last friday evening going through the first one, which is the emotional needs one, boy that was a touch night!! H and i went through alot of stuff and i think it was a very good thing to do.
To me it shows that H really, really wants this to work. H, in the past, wouldn't have touched anything like this with a ten foot pole, and now he is suggesting that we should look at doing this every month, just to see if we are on the right track and fullfilling each others needs.
Wow, it was very emotional and although we didn't neccessarily do it all well, there was some yelling, we both tried to look at why we got defensive and agreed on other ways to communicate.
We then went out to a ball on saturday night and we had a great time!! We danced and chatted and just had fun together! I think that we the best fun we have had since H came home.
We are getting there, slowly but surely!! H even suggested that we take Tango lessons, i have always wanted to learn the Tango! Even right now, H is doing the ironing as i type. It's all good.
I still need to go back to Db basics and start getting some workable goals down, so busy...... Have to make sure i have my priorities right!!!
Well speaking of which, i must dash and spend some quailty time with my baby!
