H, sweetie, this is tough stuff. Really tough. And I know it feels like a lifetime already. But, you are still early into all this.
It aint for the faint of heart. I know it is a double edged sword having an MLCer still at home. I did it for almost a year.
And I have to tell you that it was easier when he left.
That said, these people are in a life crisis. And he is hell bent on leaving because of that.
He sees you as the reason for his unhappiness. And until he looks within, he will remain hell bent.
H, it is important that he feels that you hear him.
Now, enough about him. I feel that dbing is really a map for how to live our lives. It's about finding out who we are and becoming the best us we can be.
So, while I know it is difficult to do while he is still living with you, it really is imperative that you begin to live your life.
Put the focus on you. Let him blow in the wind right now.
He needs to walk his path, you need to let him.
He is a scrambled mess right now. And trying to make sense out of his words and actions will drive you crazy.
