I'm flattered that you asked lto take a look at your thread, but I was almost a WAW, and I don't know that I am one to give you the support you need. If your H is this awful person you' ve described, I could not tolerate him for a minute. However , that's me......not you.
I will tell you my personal beliefs about a few things you've said. You cannot make him want to be a dad to your little girl. I know it hurts and that you want her to have him in her life, but you can't force him to be a parent! Even if the law made him visit her , nobody can make him love her, and one day she would know that he had no feelings for her. It would be better for him to see her without you tring to pressure him.
Neither can you make him love you! I don't know if he ever did or not and I don 't know what all the break-ups were over before the M. But if he doesn't love any longer, would you want him to stay with you? Don't you deserve to be with a man who wants you for his W?
I hope you will not have unprotected sex him any more unless he is tested and given a clean bill of health....and shows it to you!
You've told us your complaints about him. What were his complaints about you, other than you were so sick carrying his child? (btw, my mother was told the same thing about her pregnancy......even by the doctor!)
