Good advice here from everyone. I can really empathize with the frustration you're feeling.
Maybe a gentle discussion about your agreement might be the way to start. And then drop that part of the rope for a while. You can't control what he does, and maybe some of the frustration is wanting to be able to lead him into it?
You're a take-charge, get it done kind of person, right? And no one with depression is in a take-charge, get-it-done frame of mind. He needs to know what you need, but I think he might need to do it in his own way... and it might be a lot slower than your way (cause you're not depressed).
But I SO understand wanting to kick his a** into next Wednesday!!
