You were still married right? You slept with another guy while married against the wishes of your H. That's an affair and that's how he sees it.
In fact, this is what you posted way in the beginning... "Actually now that I think about it. I may have decided it was fine to see other people and never really had a discussion with him about it."
So again you did what you wanted to do without thinking that he had feelings. In fact if you read the posts where you are talking about his GF, you refer to her like she's the OW. So in a sense you see this as an A as well.
Bottom line is that it is mendable but you have to start putting yourself in your H's shoes.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
