It is odd how they profess they want to leave, leave, and yet...
Is there a why? I think it's right when we think about it: we can't know. They don't seem to, so how on earth would we?
I also think there is some familiarity factor - on both sides. We have what we were used to, what was "normal" for us as individuals in how we related to the other. That sometimes feels like control becuase it feels like it comes from an alien or rather, somebody we used to think we knew (and trusted).
The truth is we cannot know why in most cases. We just know what is and that sometimes feels like a barb.
In the end, we can only know why we do things. Everything else just...is. And of course what we are willing accept or reject and what we'll do about it.
My thoughts anyway. AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
