I remember when my W was blaming something on me again and stated she can't wait to leave, etc. (this is when we were on our way driving somewhere). I had hit my limit and thought to myself "I don't have to keep taking this."
I pulled off the side of the road and told her that enough was enough. That I would not be treated that way any longer and that I had already apologized for things that happened in our M while she hasn't and will not be a scapegoat any longer. Then I told her that I would leave her @$$ on the side of the road right then and there if she continued talking to me that way.
She immediately changed. She actually treated my nice the whole day and had continued to do so since then. Sometimes telling them in a way that shows that you mean business will do the trick.
But it's not until you give up the fear and can just let go that you will get to that point.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
