"It's about as effective on me as it would be on your WAS." those questions have had a positive effect on my R with my WAS. but, you two are different people.
i tried to go to part one of your posts but couldn't get back there. i read all of this one (part 5) but could not find the answer to this question: why do you want to stay married to your H if you're so unhappy?
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing