IMHO I would say that in this case you need to believe what he says. I think he has alot of valid points by feeling betrayed. I understand that both of you had issues that contributed to the M, but you did leave and had a relationship with someone else. It doesn't matter if it was even a ONS, it was a relationship.
That's alot for him to get over. Maybe he's self-medicating with the OW, or maybe he feels like he really can't trust you. Fact is that you can't expect him to "get over" you leaving for awhile.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
