I recently bought Marriage breakthrough video and Keep Love Alive audio from Michelle. I hope to go through them and set up my new goals again. The content is very similar than DR. But presented in different form. I hope I can some new inspirations from those videos and audios.
You have found my thread. So I don't need to answer your question. Your H's depression seems to have lift off. So he woke up and is back to you. My W is more complicated. We have been married for nearly 22 years. During this time, we did not learn how to resolve conflicts. Now it is time to face it. But with MLC, my W is very scared of facing future, which I can't understand. It seems illogical, but it is real. She is scared of our kids moving out. She seems to be unhappy with everything. And I am the nearest to her to be blamed. I used to blame myself to cause her unhappiness. But talking to many of you in this BB and reading a lot of R books, I finally come to the conclusion that she is suffering MLC. The problem is that my W is the only one who can fix her unhappiness. Nobody else can. She tried to have an EA with her coworker (the om). But she now realises that it will not help her to be happier. It made her life more complicated.
I am still trying to find ways to help my W. Try to find positive buttons to push and avoid negative buttons. But I am strong enough mentally to go through this crisis.
